If you suspect harm

If you suspect that a child has been significantly harmed, or is at risk of being significantly harmed, here are some important things to remember:

• be alert to any warning signs that a child is experiencing
• observe the child and make written notes as soon as you begin to have concerns - pay attention to changes in their behaviour, ideas, feelings and the words they use
• have gentle, non-judgemental discussions with the child - expressing your concern that a child looks sad or unwell can result in disclosures
• do not pressure the child to respond and do not ask questions that put words into a child's mouth
• assure the child that they can come and talk to you when they need to, and listen to them when they do
• when a child is being abused it does not go away and usually becomes more serious over time
• seek expert advice by contacting the Child Safety Services.